Reasons for wanting unity between the spouses contrast

Many men may not realize what happens when preparing women and review her charms in front of her husband, not the size of responsiveness enough to please her, and have fun, which is itself the Vtaathmh frosty, and probably conjures up problems, despite the fact that it may not necessarily fall under the heading of sexual dysfunction, There are women already enjoy higher than men capabilities.




The problem in contrast Unit desire between the sexes, and in the disruption of balances, this seems a bit awkward, when a man be more sensuality, makes women more return for a set and reluctant and ganja, but if the man was less of it or the natural rate, he feels that in the eyes of his wife and all of minus manhood around him, and begins to doubt them and fabricating problems, abandonment and escape them, which leads to the occurrence of the unfortunate result, a romantic glow of Extinction in their relationship.

About this sensitive point of family adviser Abdel-Rahman Alaqrah says: "We can divide the reasons for unity between the two parties desire contrast to the two cases:

1. The case of the man:
The beginning of the note that the man carries himself often larger than the actual capacity, to show who can look that does not get tired and tireless, with a lot of sex at the beginning of the marriage until it reaches a state of inaction or heartedness, and sometimes have a growing business out of the house and fatigue role In the absence of a large partial desire, it feels so women, can be attributed all this to the lack of incentive longing and provides the opportunity, so the man not be able to glow constantly craves or push of a button whenever he wanted.

2. the situation of women:
The embarrassment at the beginning of the marriage and lack of knowledge and fear of the first experiment of the most important reasons that make women less interaction with men, in addition to the pressures of life and psychological burdens and the beginnings of pregnancy, all this reduces the craving to have, and possibly infect aversion and the escape of a man and a multitude of excuses, but soon returns to equilibrium and stability faster than men, so some of the wives of men accused of sterility or abandonment without tracking the psychological and practical reality.

Here we should say that the desire to marital fun is approved Shara but the reward and the reward, so I would advise to be in moderation, meaning every four days time; even longing increases and strengthens the desire and there is a chance to recuperate, as should be the man realizes that women have the right not to deprive them or Isawmha or Eptzha to get to their goal.

And women should be aware that the man making the sex of energy and effort times the efforts, so must be estimated that the lack of man's ability to quench always desire is not a deficit or a failure, but it is a physiological state or psychiatric emergency, and it needs a lot of patience, understanding and discussion between the parties to the occurrence of the desired harmonization that achieve happiness and the satisfaction of both parties.